Please use your mind while communicating with any persons online. This is not only true for fetish or scat dating, but for every dating on the net.
Be very vigilant if the following occurs:
- your online friend tries to get you off to a free mailer or instant messaging service as soon as possible
- your online friend is not really in your neighborhood right now but “is on holiday” in another country and “will be back soon”
- the photos look like from a glamour magazine
- your future date displays unnatural feelings of affection, although you two have never met in person
If your online partner asks you, for whatever reason, for money (this can occur only after weeks or months) : Stop all correspondance IMMEDIATELY!
How can you check if someone is real and has good intentions?
- Do a Google Picture Search check on the photos you have from them. Are they unique or stolen from a celebrity or from somewhere on the net?
- Never reveal info that could identify yourself prior to a date. Use common sense here. Never reveal your real (family) name, address or bank account details.
- If you meet for the first time, do it on a public place during daylight.
Apart from that, all the best finding your scat date!
Or find a mistress!